I’m not shocked it’s easy to find men who extol the value of sleeping around without responsibility. Men have wanted sex without responsibility as long as there have been men.
I am shocked that woman celebrate this idea and think it’s a selling point for an ad:
Gone are the days of my dad telling us: “If she’s good enough to sleep with she’s good enough to marry.” Now we actually have a section of society celebrating men who wants the rewards of sex and none of the responsibility. The society we have replaced it with is one where a college woman can start her twenties sleeping with med students and congressmen and find herself in her thirties dumped by a hippie DJ. As Stacy McCain noted:
Working in political journalism, you encounter a lot of this type of woman, and one thing you discover in talking to them is that their personal narrative is usually incongruent with their behavior. The 25-year-old party girl, who bounces from one short-term boyfriend to the next, doesn’t think of herself as promiscuous. She may have been with a dozen men in the two or three years since she graduated college, but that doesn’t mean she’s a slut. No, her tawdry six-week fling was a “relationship,” she’ll tell you. She’ll say things like, “We really cared about each other, it just didn’t work out.” And so she bounces along: Six weeks with this guy, three months with that guy, maybe a few one-night-stand hookups with cute strangers when she was between “relationships” (and drunk at a party), and she can’t bring herself to admit that perhaps there’s something wrong with her behavior. Her talk about “love” and “relationships” is a rationalization, as is feminist talk about promiscuity as sexual “empowerment.” She isn’t empowered at all; in fact, she’s negotiating from a position of weakness, wasting her youth and sustaining emotional damage, while telling herself that anyone who criticizes her irresponsible behavior is motivated by envy or misogyny. You’re a “hater” if you advise young women not to screw around haphazardly, or otherwise express disapproval of such behavior.
This is a formula for a woman being alone in their 30’s and 40’s
Bottom line Men won the sexual revolution hands and pants down